In the Workplace, Being a Nonconformist Pays Off Sometimes

Even though humans are wired to conform and be part of a group, being a nonconformist can sometimes increase a person's status and perceived competency. Shirley Wang reports on Lunch Break. Photo: Videoblocks.

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