Advice Videos

Anatole Faykin on The Privilege and Pleasure of Giving Advice to Friends
In Chapter 5 of 16 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, Internet entrepreneur Anatole Faykin answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help?" Faykin shares how giving friends' advice is both a privilege and a pleasure. He notes that giving advice is tough, as often a friend is looking to have a listener and to vent rather to actively seek out feedback. Faykin works to discern those who want to vent from those who actually want advice and answers.

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  • Matt Ruby on Being Comfortable Not Getting Asked For Advice

    In Chapter 5 of 19 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, standup comedian and Vooza founder Matt Ruby answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help?" Ruby shares how he is not often approached for advice. He finds it may be due to coming across as unapproachable or doing work that is not fully understood by others. While Ruby does not try to avoid people, he shares that not being asked for advice is fine with him and allows him to be left alone.

  • Hattie Elliot on How to Give Better Advice When Asked for Help

    In Chapter 4 of 15 in her 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, entrepreneur Hattie Elliot answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You for Help?" As someone who connects people for a living, Elliot learns the most important part of giving advice is to underpromise and overdeliver. This helps to ensure she is able to meet expectations when making promises. She also learns to refine her willingness to help others to focus on a smaller group of close friends and family.

  • Ramsey Pryor: How to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help

    In Chapter 11 of 16 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, product management executive Ramsey Pryor answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You for Help?" With time, Pryor learns to give less prescriptive advice. He learns from his children to give advice is more to be a sounding board and help others make a decision rather than to make a decision for others. Pryor is a product management executive at IBM focused on cloud-based collaboration.

  • 6 Celebrated Women Offer Advice to Their 20-Year Old Selves

    What advice would you give your 20-year-old self? asked Real Simple.

  • Getting Advice for Making Big Decisions in Your 30s

    In Chapter 23 of 23 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, business strategist Bryan Law answers "At This Point in Your Life, Where Are You Seeking Advice and Coaching?" Now in his thirties, Law shares how he gets advice from a network of people to make more informed decisions. From teacher mentors from Georgetown to an inspiring Angolan friend to his parents to his spouse, Law finds willing people to support him as he faces key life decisions.

  • Rachel Lehmann-Haupt on Seeking Advice From Working Mom Friends

    In Chapter 17 of 17 in her 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, author and small business owner Rachel Lehmann-Haupt answers "At This Moment in Your Life, Where Are You Seeking Advice and Coaching?" Lehmann-Haupt shares how she gathers working mom friends she respects to help her shape next steps in her life as a working mom. She finds her friends understand her needs as someone trying to be a good mom and strike the right work-life balance in an aspiring career. Rachel Lehmann-Haupt is a writer.

  • Louise Langheier on Two Ways to Give Better Career Advice

    In Chapter 7 of 21 in her 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, social entrepreneur Louise Langheier answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help?" Langheier shares two ways she has learned to give better advice. The first is honing in on the specific question the person seeking advice is really trying to answer. The second is appreciating the learning experience that comes with being asked to give advice.

  • Rihanna's Creative Director Got Career Advice From a Horse

    Think of the best career advice you ever received. Who gave it to you? Your mom? Your mentor? Ahem, your favorite website? Well, Ciarra Pardo, best known as Rihanna's creative director, got her best advice ever from her horse.

  • Randall Metting on Job Search Advice for Recent College Grads

    In Chapter 15 of 16 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, Randall Metting answers "How Are You Becoming a Better Teacher?" Metting shares how he provided career coaching for a recent college graduate looking to find a new job. He advises the young graduate to write down ideal qualities for a job and then to start networking to meet people and find related job openings. Randall Metting is a brand development and marketing manager at Dulce Vida Spirits in Austin, Texas. Over 17 years, he has bu

  • Career Advice From HBO ‘Girls' Showrunner

    Is swearing at the office okay? What about having a quick 'power cry' at work? Find out when HBO Girls showrunner Jenni Konner shares her career Dos & Don’ts with Glamour ’s Editor-in-Chief Cindi Leive.

  • Conrad Doucette on Giving Better Advice When Asked for Help

    In Chapter 17 of 17 in his 2013 Capture Your Flag interview, musician and digital strategist Conrad Doucette answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help?" Doucette puts himself in the shoes of the person asking for advice. In his younger years he would have dispensed advice based on his point of view rather than the perspective of the person asking for advice. Conrad Doucette is a Brooklyn musician and the drummer for the band Takka Takka.

  • Marketing Advice on Finding the Right Event to Promote Your Product

    In Chapter 8 of 16 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, Randall Metting answers "What Factors Help You Determine Where to Direct Your Marketing Resources?" Metting shares his process for finding the best events to promote and market his product, Dulce Vida tequila. He and his team assess a variety of factors, from cost to competition to human resources to audience size, to narrow event options to those with highest impact potential. Randall Metting is a brand and marketing manager.

  • Most Advisers Aren't Afraid of "Robo" Advice

    Online investment services aren't just for young clients and low-balance accounts; "robo" advice can help any wealth advisory firm grow, says Bernie Clark, the head of Schwab Adviser Services. "Robo" advice is complementary and an opportunity, Mr. Clark says.

  • The Making of Me: Life Advice from Successful and Inspiring Women

    5 remarkable women share their stories in Glamour’s new series, “The Making of Me.” Whether you’re starting over or starting your own business, trying to balance work and motherhood, or searching to uncover your true passion in live, you’ll find inspiration and advice as these women reveal their journey to becoming who they are today.

  • Mark Graham on Essential Advice Every Intern Needs to Know

    In Chapter 14 of 15 in his 2013 Capture Your Flag interview, media executive Mark Graham answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You For Help?" Graham shares what he does to counsel interns on how to build career skills in an internship and get a full-time job working in media and entertainment. He shares the importance of making connections and keeping in touch with your professional network. Additionally, he shares the importance of saying yes and taking initiative.

  • Etiquette Advice for International Work Trips

    In Chapter 16 of 23 in his 2014 Capture Your Flag interview, business strategist Bryan Law answers "How Have You Learned to Work More Effectively Across Different Cultures?" Law quickly learns different cultures do business in different ways. While in the UAE working in Dubai, Law makes a social faux pas around a Muslim woman and eases tension by making fun of himself. Bryan Law is a Principal in the Global Business Strategy Group at Google and a board member at Angola University.

  • Nina Godiwalla on Smarter Ways to Give Advice When Asked for Help

    In Chapter 16 of 18 in her 2013 Capture Your Flag interview, author and entrepreneur Nina Godiwalla answers "How Have You Learned to Give Better Advice When People Ask You for Help?" Godiwalla shares how she is getting better about handling advice requests. She learns she can be more effective making introductions by playing a translator role to facilitate connections. This complements sitting down for an advice conversation and getting a longer view perspective of questions being asked.

  • 'The Daily Show’s' Samantha Bee and Jessica Williams Share Workplace Advice

    You know them from Comedy Central’s The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, and now Glamour’s Editor-in-Chief Cindi Leive sits down with the hilarious (and super-smart) Samantha Bee and Jessica Williams for a few workplace Dos and Don’ts.

  • The Best Money Advice from Your Mom

    What was the best money advice you ever got from Mom?