Type your comment hereIn 1979 My intended and I drove from Boston Ma to St. Louis, Mo where he had got a job and an apt that was close to his job so he could walk there in less than 10 minutes. We eventually married and moved into our own home that we bought in 1989 In the State of illinois. He got very sick, disabled, dialysis, frequent hospital stays, and he died in 1998. I stayed around 5 years and moved back to the boston area by myself.. We never had kids of our own although he had adult "kids" from a former marriage. He is buried in a Military Cemetery in the St. louis Missouri area. I know I will never go back to Missouri. Too hot, too humid and all his relatives there are dead except for the newer generation who i do not know. It may have been all different if we were much younger when we made the move but he was 58 and I was 38 when we left Boston. Would I do it over again? No. not at that age.