Love at Work: 5 Couples Tell Their Stories

What better place to learn more about a person than at work

Yes, you deserve to love your job. But there's more to life than your career. Judging by the results of a survey on workplace romance, we're not the only ones who think that way. So for Valentine's Day, AOL Jobs turns to love of a different sort. We cast a net for couples who met their partners at work. Here are five of their stories:


Vinnie and Bill Harrity of Broadview Heights, Ohio
Courtesy Bill HarrityVinnie and Bill Harrity on a recent trip to Prague

I started working at Roy Rogers Restaurant on Route 17 in Rutherford, NJ (it's now a Wendy's) and met my husband-to-be there. He cooked the roast beef in the kitchen. I made the french fries and Roast Beef sandwiches. Bill and I enjoyed talking about music--something we still do to this day. He was smart, kind, fun--and had a great family. I considered him "just a friend". We would go to parties together, concerts and Wildwood, NJ (the Jersey shore). One day my dearest friend asked me "why aren't you dating Bill?" I said I didn't want to ruin a great friendship. Well, let's just say we both got over that and have been married for 34 years. He's still my best friend.


Nina Lentini and Richard Norman of Norwich, CT

Courtesy Nina LentiniA wedding photo in the lobby of the New York Daily News


One day at Adweek, a strange copy editor showed up, hired to freelance by someone who had worked at Newsweek, where this guy had a full-time job. He was quiet, kept to himself. Maybe a week or two later, I returned from lunch with what turned out to be a mutual acquaintance and, as I stepped off the elevator, there was Richard Norman, sitting at the desk facing the lift.

We chatted briefly. I liked his smile. That weekend, he called me at home and asked me to dinner. I knew right away this was going places and it felt a bit disturbing to have him in the office, to glance sideways, for us to have this secret. But we kept it that way, mostly because he was so private (me, less so). I was never his boss as he worked on publications other than the one I worked on so that was not a problem.

About four months later, we married, also on the sly, with just two attendants and a photographer. When our Los Angeles office received the announcement I sent, they thought I'd married a different Richard, so unknown was mine to them. That was nearly 26 years ago.


Eleanor and Al Kamieniecki of Nutley, N.J.
Courtesy Al KamienieckiEleanor and Al at their wedding

Al had a few friends who worked for me in the office. They set us up and Al eventually came in on a Saturday when I was working and worked up the nerve to come talk to me. He noticed I was reading Disney's biography and how Disney was born in Chicago, so he asked me if I'd like to go for a ride to find his birth home. That was our first date. He was an Area Supervisor at the time and I was the Manager for the Customer Service office of what was then Fisher Scientific.

Al did not report to me but he did report to my partner who was the second manager in the office. We did keep it quiet for awhile, but Al was so happy to have met someone (his first wife had died several years earlier). I found out the office friends had been prompting him to ask me out for quite a while before he worked the nerve up to do so.

When we got engaged, the Director in the office changed the reporting structure for him to report to her. And so we got married just over a year later. The only problem it caused is that he couldn't work for Thermo-Fisher in our business unit because he would ultimately have been reporting to me when we moved to New Jersey.

The only challenge with marrying a co-worker is that you start talking shop all the time and you don't get a break from work when home, and since he was a supervisor and I a manager, I couldn't discuss much of my job since it was proprietary. We've been married 12 years.


Samantha Burroughs and Jason Thomas of Charlotte, N.C.
Courtesy of Samantha BurroughsEngagement photo


Jason started working with me at Time Warner Cable in Learning and Development a week before Christmas. Sadly, no one told him about the fact your first check comes in paper form, not direct deposit. I was the only other employee on our team in the office on Christmas Eve and I get a ping from the new guy. He asks me if I was familiar with the pay schedule and if he would get paid before the new year. Once I realized what happened, I was able to pull strings and get him a paycheck that day. These are the things that make people love you!

Fast-forward two months.

I decided with a few other co-workers to start a kickball team to meet new people, have fun, and get some exercise. Jason asks if he can join and I say, 'Sure!' I love meeting new people and Jason had never really hung out with the kickballers after work. He comes out with us and he and I have an easy conversation. He starts dropping by my desk to ask questions about all types of details about projects. He stops by to drop off a copy of Wreck It Ralph, because he hears that I love Disney and haven't seen this one yet. He starts texting me after work with random questions. (I am still clueless that he has any interest in me, at all.)

One weekend I invite him out with my friends, because I feel that he's a great guy who needs a girlfriend. I tell him come out with us, we'll have fun, you'll meet new people, you'll get out of the house on a Saturday night....again, I had no clue that he was interested in me.

He comes out, meets my friends, they LOVE him. Instantly, I'm getting, "Where has he been?" "Why aren't you dating him?!?" all night. Of course, my response is, "I work with him and he isn't interested in me." I was wrong. (Honestly, I thought he was out of my league, because he's a little hottie!) All it took was a few beers for confidence and he decided to slow dance with me. Then, right there, in front of everyone, he kisses me.

I ask, "Why did you do that?"

He replies, "Because, I've wanted to for so long, and it seemed like the right time."

We've been together ever since.

He proposed Sept. 10 on a dirty street in St. John. Our wedding day is April, 26, 2014.

I can't WAIT!!


Jeanette Jaskowski and Jeffrey Kovach, North Brunswick, N.J.
Jeffrey KovachWedding set for 2015

This guy and I had been working together at Dr. Harvey Weingarten's family practice in Kendall Park, NJ. I was a very shy and quiet receptionist. He was an outgoing and sociable medical assistant. The shifts were long, so naturally we spent a lot of time together. We became good work friends, but both of us were in long term relationships so our friendship never went beyond the office.

I had begun to develop a crush on him after working together for a while. The first opportunity I had to act on my feelings was in 2009. I was in a friend's wedding and my boyfriend at the time did not want to come because of the distance. He suggested I ask "that guy Jeff" to go with me instead. When I finally summoned up the courage to ask Jeff to be my date for the wedding, he said he would like to. But it did not work out because my boyfriend wound up driving down.

A month later my friend was having a Halloween Party in NYC, and my boyfriend did not want to come. Again he said, "Ask that guy Jeff." When I asked Jeff to go to the party with me, I gave him plenty of time to think it over. When he said yes a few days later, I was grinning from ear to ear. Although the plan was to only go to the party dressed as doctors, Jeff's friend had won tickets to see Weezer at the Hammerstein ballroom that same night, but she was not able to go; so she offered them to Jeff.

At the concert, as we made our way to the bar through the crowd, he grabbed my hand and my heart melted in my chest, and for the first time ever I was breathless. It was at that moment I knew Jeff was the one for me. The rest of that night, I tried to hide my feelings from him and acted like everything was cool. We went to the Halloween party and stayed out until 5 am.

For the next few months we kept our relationship a secret, because in our office, everyone knew everyone else's business, and we didn't want it to be awkward if our relationship didn't work out. But that was never the case. We have been inseparable since that night, and after four years, he asked me to marry him. Our date is set for May 30, 2015 at Maritime Parc, in Jersey City.

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Kay

I met my husband at our work place and honestly now I don't think it was a good idea. We worked at an auto factory, he worked in one building and I worked in another. That was just fine until my job got moved to his building and right near his department. He was so jealous that if he saw me talking to another man he accused me of cheating on him. One day I was at the coffee machine getting a coffee when another male worker walked up to also get a cup of coffee. This person said something to me, just casual talk and I answered him. Since we both worked in the same department we walked back to our jobs together and of my, was I in trouble when I got to our car to go home that afternoon! I was called everything but a wife, with my husband saying that I embarassed him in front of his co-workers! Of course it was different if he talked to a female in the same situation! Back then it was not that easy to get a divorce, as it is now days, but if it had been I would have left him in a minute. My entire marriage was the same, with him even accusing me of having an affair with my best friends 18 year old son! Still don't know how I could do that when I had my three children with me at all times, since he never watched them at all so that I could even bowl! Of course later in my marriage I realized that every time that he was accusing me of having an affair it was because that is exactly what he was doing! After he passed I discovered that he had more than 4 affairs while we were married and I only knew for sure about one, the best thing was that he own mother, my mother-in-law, was helping him. She was even taking messages from the girlfriends and then calling our house to give him the message! This was all before the cell phones and texting! I happen to pick up the phone one time and heard her giving my husband a message from said girlfriend! I informed her that this was still my house and as far as I knew we were still married and that she should NEVER do something like that again! That was the last time I talked to that woman until my husbands funeral. That was not good either but I will not go into that one, except to say I never talked to her again when I realized what she had done through the years and the comment she made to me ten minutes before the service at my husbands funeral!

February 14 2014 at 12:16 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
keywest1117

This article ran in the "Finance" menu of AOL - really? Lazy AOL?

February 14 2014 at 11:37 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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