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The Secret Upside To Being Unemployed


Gail BelskySomething happened last week that has made me call off the hunt for right now: I am flooded with freelance work. I'm up to my eyeballs, which is great -- not only from an income standpoint, but also because it's given me some perspective.

After the sobering barrage of comments to my last post about contingency work, much of it complaints about age discrimination and long-term unemployment, I'm glad for the break, and for the chance to reflect on this whole career reinvention thing.

Reflection No. 1: You can't work full time and reinvent yourself full time.
Patricia Smith, a career coach with New Directions, in Boston, told me that job-hunting is a four-day-a-week endeavor. When you're working full time, as I am now, that's impossible. So I need to remind myself of my original goal: shifting to a more sustainable and rewarding version of my old editing and writing career. It's a strategic move, not a seismic one. But even if it were, I only have so much time in a day, and as long as I have a lot of work, it's going to be a slow process.

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Reflection No. 2: Being self-employed has real benefits in this job market.
Given my age, the state of the current job market, and predictions about the next one, I shouldn't just turn my back on my 11-year freelance career. People may not like it, but the use of flexible workforces-consulting networks, project employees, independent contractors and temps-is a growing trend, according to Tracy Burns, CEO of the Northeast Human Resources Association. "The more fluid environment is pushing the corporate mold," she says.

It means no insurance or steady paycheck, but I haven't had either one for years. (My husband, thankfully, has both). It may also mean less money, but freelancing is a supply and demand business, so hopefully that will change. (Plus, if I switch career paths entirely, I might have to start at a lower level, anyhow.) And while there's no job security in contingency work, I don't think anyone has that safety net anymore. Working for yourself, in fact, may give you more control over your future, not less.

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Reflection No. 3: Finding the right "fit" requires knowing who you are.
As long as I've got money coming in, there's no reason to rush a job search-and every reason to slow down. Since I can wait, any move I make should be a happy one, according to the coaches I've talked to, in order for it to be long-term and fruitful. It should be a good fit for everyone.

I thought finding a good fit was a priority for me, and yet I realize now that I've paid little attention to it. Recently, I took one of those personality tests that tell you what your work style is, and what you're suited for. But this one, the Role Fit Survey, by a company called Manifesting Talent, isn't intended for jobseekers; it's for employers to see if applicants are a good fit for the position.

I saw the test as a chance to see what would be a good fit for me. The questions covered everything from how organized I am to whether prefer I writing to talking. The results showed that I'd make a better pipe fitter than an editor (it was considerably higher up on the list of gigs I'm apparently most suited for), but they also revealed some traits that I've pushed aside when I've looked at job postings. Traits that make certain jobs a bad fit.

For instance, I don't naturally enjoy dealing in details, which apparently, lots of people do. I make sure everything's done right, of course, but it's not something I want to spend tons of time doing. So last week, I found myself looking at a particular job posting, one of the first requirements listed was copyediting - a job that requires a lot of crossing t's and dotting i's. There were other requirements that involved detail work, too.

A month ago I would have applied without thinking twice. Not anymore. If that employer ever gave me the test, they'd know what I know: it's not the best fit. And right now, with the interesting mix of work I have coming in, I'm not looking to do anything that doesn't feel right.

What about you? Do you see any benefits to not having a full-time job?

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Gail Belsky

Gail Belsky

Gail Belsky is an editor, writer and project manager for online and print. She has held senior positions at Time Inc., Working Mother, and Parents magazine, and has written for such websites as CBS MoneyWatch.com, CNBC.com Health.com, Prevention.com, and WorkReimagined.org. She is the author of The List: 100 Ways to Shake Up Your Life.

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Jo Jo, sr

There's an awful air of apathy in this country right now. Many people aren't looking for work because there isn't any. Calls to job ads go unanswered. Employment agencies call you in and don't even see you, they just have you update your profile. No one is shopping, no one is getting a paycheck, unemployment doesn't allow for extras. This is outrageous. The 1st lady hired Beyoncé and Adele to sing at her birthday party and conservative talk show folks are being fired. Is anyone out there looking out for America anymore?

March 13 2013 at 1:23 AM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
Charlie

This has to be a political scheme to make the prez's administration look like they are doing something good about unemployment. We have millions of people unemployed and the only recommendation is to hire someone to help the unemployed reinvent themselves. If you are unemployed and have no or little income it is difficult to find funds to hire help of any sort. Sad that one of two cases are used by the media to try to show how everyone can get out of unemployment.

March 12 2013 at 9:06 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
cjt1320

Nice to have a spouse that can pay the bills so you can do things your way.

March 12 2013 at 9:06 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
tradebiz99

the worst part is that most of these "freelance" people are still collecting some kind of unemployment benefits!

gotta love how even the media is driving this country right into a wall...

we can not keep affording these entitlement programs, PERIOD! spending FAR more then we take in is simply NOT self sustaining! and taxing the 5% who already pay for almost 80% of EVERYTHING and EVERY service already, is NOT the answer!

March 12 2013 at 6:26 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
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sun1045

Good point..

March 12 2013 at 6:27 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
Patricia

Being unemployed is never good. This article is misleading. Right from the start this person had work freelancing. Others are not that lucky. I am not saying that when you are in your 30's it might turn out well, you will get back on your feet get a better job. But when you are in your late 40's early 50's your to young to retire and to old to get most jobs out there. It does happen but it takes that age group longer , and God help us by then all of our savings are gone.

March 12 2013 at 6:07 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
tmoschetti

The "NEW" America, how wonderful it is to NOT work! She must be a union member! These are the kind of people that now litter our country, and we're seeing the results as we move closer to being like the failed Social Democracies of dying Western Europe.

This country prospered quite well for a long time with an unemployment benefit period of 20 or 26 weeks. Drawing unemployment benefits is now considered an "occupatio" by many, and no matter how long the period, "America's Greatest Mistake Ever," want to keep extending the benefits period, after which many go right onto federal disability plans. We are becoming Wester Eurpope just as "AGME" has planned from the beginnng!

Here is the NEW America:
TANF (food stamps) is just one of several welfare programs operated by the federal government to provide cash, food, housing, and health care assistance to poor and low-income Americans. Today, taxpayers fund roughly 80 different programs at a cost of nearly $1 trillion a year for these purposes. These include:

12 programs providing food aid;
12 programs funding social services;
12 educational assistance programs;
11 housing assistance programs;
10 programs providing cash assistance;
9 vocational training programs;
7 medical assistance programs;
3 energy and utility assistance programs; and,
3 child care and child development programs.

How many of the government’s 80-plus welfare programs include a work requirement? Just two.

March 12 2013 at 3:18 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
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virginia

tell me where i can apply to these programs and do i qualify.
i am a single person making $1200 a month gross.
i am not entitled to ANYTHING.
btw my mother died at 32,my granfather at 56,my grandmother at 39, 2 uncles at 40 and 45. all worked,none got a thing back from SS.
i have medical issues that prevent me from working more than i do.
republicans dont want birth control or abortion,but they dont want to pay for the children.
these programs are for the children.

March 12 2013 at 7:47 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
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Jo Jo, sr

Apply for Social Security Disability.

March 13 2013 at 1:28 AM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down
rudniski136

I know people in their middle 40's who were laid off in 2009. They were general laborers. This was at and during the peak of the downward plunge. They have now given up all hope of ever working again. When they apply for any job, no matter how menial, they are never considered because:

They are too old.

Their credit rating has been demolished because of a shortage of money at the time they were laid off and because they have used up all their savings. If they had homes, they have been lost.

They are overqualified, or under qualified.

They have "too big" a gap in their work history. (This is particularly cruel under the circumstances)

The "jobs programs" are either unfunded or entirely absent.

The "job training programs" are either unfunded, entirely absent, or do not include white people if it can be avoided.

The real unemployment number is 14.2% and is nearly the same as it was in February, 2009.
U6 Unemployment Rates portal/7.com

March 12 2013 at 12:39 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
lol

The good thing about being unemployed is that at least you don't get to work at a job you hate. The bad thing about being unemployed is no money, insurance, etc. Face it, there's a one percent chance of me getting a job in my field, so it's either be employed at a job I hate (because lord knows I have a better chance of dating a model than landing a job in my field) or be unemployed with no money coming in. It's a lose-lose situation.

March 12 2013 at 9:49 AM Report abuse +8 rate up rate down Reply
summerctz

OH yes, it's just SO wonderful to be unemployed. The endless interviews that go nowhere, wondering how you'll pay for groceries every week and how you'll pay your bills EVERY month.

I guess it's easy when you have a spouse who has maintained their job and benefits and you can take the time, effort to and money to reinvent yourself instead of looking for a job. This article is bunch of "feel good" crap and not based in reality.

March 12 2013 at 9:22 AM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
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Aissa2

I read you. I have had to decide whether to eat or buy medicine. My vision is becoming blurry because I have selected to eat rather than spend $200.00 in medicine it will take every other month I can not afford. There will be a time when the health issues will limit or stop my sense of being independent. I have worried about becoming homeless, being unemployed makes your credit really stink. I have had the issue of eating and how am I going to eat till the end of the month. I have had the interviews and let's face it, the fear. Yet, I know I am not the only one facing what I face; others are in the same position or worse. Even with creditors, I did not choose to become unemployed or unemployable; I think that is her story, her viewpoint, her experience; we all have individual ones of our own. This is a journey for which none of us could ever prepare and one that terrifies many of us. I am still making peace and trying to survive, but I also remember the circumstances which brought me here and they were legit at the time and still are to me. Hang in there! We always want to see that someone else who is also going through similar circumstances will come through at another place other than the one we find ourselves. Know that there are many of us who make the same decisions EVERY month, like you. I am not trying to reinvent myself either, just trying to survive what is left of the self I thought I had and learn from the place I now find myself.

March 12 2013 at 11:14 AM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
Bruno-Lynn

After working for 31 years, I left my executive assistant/legal secretary job in September 2007 when I remarried and relocated. My husband is 19 years older than me (he's 75 and I'm 56) and we wanted to spend some time together. I started looking for another job again in January 2008 and spent two years looking. I quickly realized that work in my same field would pay $10,000 to $12,000 a year less than what I was previously making. My husband encouraged me to stop looking and, fortunately, we had the resources for me to be able to do that. It's been wonderful spending time with my husband, cooking, and doing some traveling. Lest you think my life has been a picnic, though, I was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis in September 2012 and have been in severe pain since. I just started on Humira last week and it seems to be helping. My point is, though, that if I had received this diagnosis while still working full time, I probably would had to file for disability.

March 12 2013 at 9:13 AM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
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Aissa2

You would possibly not have had an easy time obtaining disability. Now, it seems that the governement is making it much harder to simply file and be granted disability. I think you have found another side of what this lady is probably trying to relate, unemployment for some may have been the road to discovering something and finding some other joys beyond being employed; 31 years and you still had other facets of an adventure waiting around the corner, remarrying, having a new husband and relocating. The fact that you wanted to spend more time with him might not have been something had you thought differently, something you probably would have explored. The fact that you selected to make your changes and you were spending a wonderful time with your husband and doing the things you enjoyed was a part of one of the good things about finding yourself unemployed. I really hope that the Humira helps you much and that you can resume enjoying yourself again.

March 12 2013 at 11:23 AM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
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Bruno-Lynn

Thank you for the kind words and best wishes to you, as well. It's so refreshing to receive a nice blog response, instead of something nasty.

March 12 2013 at 11:57 AM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down
Aissa2

Bruno-Lynn, I wanted to answer the last question you asked me regarding librarianship.The library fields mentioned are even more difficult for an out of work librarians to even be considered or enter; they are considered speciallized libraries and require more experience to obtain positions than even Public Librarians or School librarians. When I studied to become a librarian, I was half way through my courses and the focus changed. From concentration of books, customer service to technology. I had exactly one semester to complete all of the core classes before I would have to adopt and follow the new curriculum and lose both money, grades and time. I did it! I also had to learn how to use the technology at the same time as trying to obtain my degree. I sat in the computer lab and asked questions of students in my field who were younger. I tried to soak up, at the same time mourning the fact that I wanted to be a traditional librarian. I wanted to make a difference, help people find the gem that would empower them. Ended up creating a kind of niche for myself. Well, believe I have few regrets in time I spent being a Librarian. As an adult student in College, I admired and still fondly think about those College Librarians and later while working as a Public Librarian, dogged wonderful folks who given a question, no matter how difficult or obscure would have a person leaving with either the answer, the book, the proof, or one would be referred to where the answer could be found. They did so with tender care, major interest and a sense of humor sometimes that was equally valuable to the information they provided. I am now, like several who have now passed away over the years a literary dinosaur. I miss mostly connection with people. Miss helping people, Miss talking to them and learning information I would learn that even when emotionally filed away, sometimes the same question would resurface by a new person when least expected. I guess you could say that one of my traits was somewhat of being a people person, kind of intuitive and always empathetic. My idea was not that I knew everything, but someone has come to find out something to empower themselves with knowledge and I had one method or idea of how they could perhaps find the information. My power came from knowing that I had given them the best information I knew to help them and they could use it for whatever purpose they came to the library in the first place. There are times I still miss...being a librarian.

March 13 2013 at 4:41 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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