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Sex Surrogate Cheryl Cohen Greene, 68: I've Slept With Over 900 People


Cheryl Cohen Greene

Cheryl Cohen Greene is a 68-year-old loving grandmother and cancer survivor who's been happily married for 33 years. In that time, she's slept with hundreds of other men in her conjugal bed, and transformed many of their lives.

Greene is a sex surrogate, treating patients with sexual difficulties through talk, touching and intercourse, for $300 per two-hour session. Greene's story has now reached hundreds of thousands of people, thanks to the movie "The Sessions," about the treatments that she (played by Helen Hunt) provided journalist and poet Mark O'Brien (John Hawkes), who was disabled by polio as a boy.

Paralyzed from the neck down and tethered to an iron lung, O'Brien sought Greene's services as a 38-year-old virgin who hoped to find some comfort in his own skin, and feel a little more deserving of love. Greene talks about her experiences with O'Brien, as well as several other of her patients, in her memoir An Intimate Life: Sex, Love, and My Journey as a Surrogate Partner, published in November.

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In a profile in the Los Angeles Times, Greene describes entering the profession after a friend gave her a copy of Surrogate Wife: The Story of a Masters & Johnson Sexual Therapist and the Nine Cases She Treated. Since then she's slept with over 900 people for money in her home near UC Berkeley. Her husband, Bob Greene, a retired postal worker, has no issue with his wife's career -- he met her as a client, after all, when he struggled with erectile issues after serving in Vietnam.

Vena Blanchard, the president of the International Professional Surrogates Association, which certifies sex surrogates, told The Daily Beast that more than half of the organization's clients are middle-aged virgins. "These people are socially handicapped," she said. "They need encouragement in a safe, gentle environment."

Greene says that a quarter of her patients have never had sex before, others have problems with ejaculation.

William Masters and Virginia Johnson, two of the most influential sex researchers of all time, first popularized the idea of sex surrogacy in the 1970s. Their ideas became embroiled in controversy, however, and the AIDS epidemic of the '80s further reduced the career's appeal.

The number of practicing partner-therapists certified by the International Professional Surrogates Association dwindled from a peak of 200 to 300 members to less than 40 today, according to the Times. But among one group, the profession has become notably more popular: men.

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Sex surrogacy has long been a female field, but now 35 to 40 percent of IPSA surrogates are men, Blanchard told MyHealthNewsDaily. And women perhaps more than men could benefit from hands-on sex therapy; in a review of 32 different studies, Elisabeth Lloys, a professor of biology and philosophy of science at Indiana University, found that a third of women never have an orgasm during intercourse.

A few male sex surrogates have even found some celebrity. Investment banker turned "psychosexual bodyworker" Mike Lousada became the talk of London with his vaginal massages, even impressing famed feminist Naomi Wolf (Lousada only touches clients with his hands).

Greene is enjoying her sudden celebrity too, and some of the twists that her line of work has brought. She likely never imagined that in her older years she would find herself in Helen Hunt's mansion, helping the Oscar-winner prepare for the role by showing her the right way to massage her boyfriend's feet.




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Claire Gordon has contributed to Slate's DoubleX, the Huffington Post, and the book Prisons: Current Controversies. While an undergraduate at Yale University and a research fellow at Yale graduate school, she spoke on panels at Yale and Cornell, and reported from Cairo, Tokyo, and Berlin. Follow Claire on Twitter. Email Claire at claire.gordon@teamaol.com. Add Claire to your Google+ circles.

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Shakia Monae

This is prostutition idc what anyone says. You can help through talking, sex therapy but sexual intercourse with hundreds of people is just dirty. Spreading STD's and everything else, and for a spouse to believe it's just simply helping people they're just completely stupid.

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Brandon Bynum

I know it seems that way to you and I wish it didn't. I am paralyzed from my chest down and have had my own problems that would have improved greatly with the help of a sex therapist. I guess this isn't something people understand or care for unless they are(or were) in a situation where this would seem helpful. In the hospital were I went to recover from my accident there were young kids that just had an accident that left them in the same condition as me. They will go through puberty paralyzed..can you imagine what it must be like for them?..Some not being able to move from the neck down. While there growing into adulthood they probably haven't left the security of there home and the love and care of there parents at there bed side. These people have the same desires as you or me but the chance of acting them out and learning from them is not there. The majority of work these therapist do is for these people who have gone through life never knowing they can experience joy and happiness through sexuality. Another certified therapist is working with the patient at the same time period to help him or her handle the new feelings and experiences that come from learning they are able to please another person and be pleased themselves in a intimate way. So with two therapist that have degrees from collage (only one being a "sex surrogate". The other is a therapist that has never done surrogacy) there is a far gap between the "street walkers" and them. They are able to have compassion and spend time to most importantly teach and give the person the lost lessons they would have had if they would have been "able bodied" going through life. Unfortunately it is only for a set number of sessions.

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Alexandru Simionescu

lol people, i just admire her. It takes a lot of courage to stand up for what you believe in, even when the society blames you for what you do. I also think thats what evolution is about :D

March 26 2013 at 2:12 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Aritul

A prostitute with a nice title.

March 09 2013 at 2:00 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
edmund2011

300$ x 900 people - that is $270,000. Did she paid the IRS ????

March 09 2013 at 1:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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imuham1093

times six sessions each

March 25 2013 at 12:07 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
edmund2011

Illegal use of your ****

March 09 2013 at 1:41 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
edmund2011

If only I had a **** or *****. I could make a lot of money like this slut. I though it illegal to take money for sex

March 09 2013 at 1:36 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
nicolet531

Very sad! We have really dropped in the gene pool to complete idiocy! This woman is PROOF that men will sleep with ANYTHING. Her bogus attempt to make this "legitimate" and "meaningful" and ow a story has been made just shows that we completely lack any moral core whatsoever. She is disgusting. Her OPEN MARRIAGE obviously failed, as she is divorced and now married to one of her former clients. Really pathetic.

March 09 2013 at 12:24 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
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imuham1093

Wow I just watched the movie last night and it was not sexy in the way that open marriage might be perceived. It was sad and moving. I missed the part where it said she was divorced. I read that she has been married to a former client for 33 yrs. Don't throw stones please. We don't live in a super moral society where everyone is a virgin on their wedding night anymore. Maybe we never did.

March 25 2013 at 12:15 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Joshua Middleton

I wanna see that now!

January 05 2013 at 12:47 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
John Martin

prostitution

January 01 2013 at 9:43 AM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
suzscoops

I hope she has a bag over her head or the client has beer goggles on. She should pay THEM!

December 26 2012 at 9:41 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply

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