Six Phrases Every Working Woman Should Know -- and Use

Working WomanA reporter recently asked me for some "lines" women should have at the ready. It made me think about the many phrases I often suggest that women add to their arsenals so that they are prepared for whatever comes their way. Try practicing these until they become second nature to you:

1. "Be that as it may, I still would like..."

Use this to hold your ground with someone who is giving you an excuse for why you can't have what you want. A variation would be, "I hear what you're saying, and I still would like..."

2. "I would be happy to do that for you. Let me tell you __________ [how much it will cost, how much time it will take, how much help I will need, etc.]."

Good customer/client service requires you to be willing to do whatever it takes to get the job done - but it doesn't mean you shouldn't ask for what you need to meet the needs of others. Often when you tell them the "cost" of their request, it soon becomes modified.

3. "Thank you. I'm glad you noticed and appreciate the feedback."

If you have a difficult time accepting a compliment, this is the one for you.

4. "Although I can't participate at this time, I appreciate your letting me know about it."

This is a nice way to say buzz off, I'm not buying whatever you're selling.

5. "I'm sure you didn't realize you just cut ahead of me in line."

You can say this one as you step in front of the offender - best said with a smile.

6. "Although I can't do ________, I can do ____________."

Contrasting is a powerful tool to set clear boundaries yet offer alternatives that are more acceptable to you.

You can find these and other tips for communicating with impact in my new book, "Nice Girls Just Don't Get It," co-authored with Carol Frohlinger.

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Sorry, after decades of observing females tossing their hissy fits, often about the most trivial events, not allowing others the courtesies females so often demand for their self-centered oh-so important selves and a multitude of other events created by female-type illogic, materialism, irrationality and their culturally created "Precious Princess" mind-set i just generally try to ignore the childish girls.

Observe the dames expecting the world to make way for them as the cell phone apparently glued to their half-filled head takes 150 percent of their attention; leaving no reserve capacity to cope with their environment or offer the slightest consideration for other folk's rights, needs, etc.

Note the two clucking daffy dames blocking an entire grocery store aisle with their carts and bodies; forcing others to wait or detour.

DARE to even politely ask for access to the aisle and gaze at the oft-sent glare of hatred!!!!!!!!!!!!

So MANY other examples......

and the self-centered dames are concocting even MORE methods of getting their way?


Require that inferior gender to accept RESPONSIBILITY with the HORDE of "rights" that are too-often actually privileges, those clucking, squawking biddies constantly SCREECH belong to them or do society a favor and limit the fowl/foul ones to a much-subdued societal position those sub-par societal members are truly deserving of.

May 13 2011 at 12:09 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply

what about, please, thank you,and excuse me,or sometimes,you were here before me or look i wouldn't mind you getting in front of me but i am rushed for time,do you need some help,what the hell has happened to good old fashioned brotherly love,i can be a bitch but a little kindness in todays society aint never hurt me

May 12 2011 at 6:36 PM Report abuse -2 rate up rate down Reply
Olivas Family !!

It is kind of funny how these phrases are suggested for women to use. Why not men too? Is it because we can't be as blunt as men? I have seen men use the same tone and vocabulary as I do. They were seen as strong leaders. I was seen as being too dominant and intimidating. The six phrases sound like phrases a preschool teacher would use in the classroom.

May 12 2011 at 3:21 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply

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