Rather a mundane piece, boring in fact.One important point: you will often fail to ask for help because you don't know what you don't know.Sometimes in medicine you'll be like the guy who "not only don' know nothin' - he don' even suspec' nothin' "
As a Registered Nurse for 43 years and still practicing I think you will never stop learning and you will always have to ask for help at times. Practice as a team always and life will be good. And one more thing, always be open to teach others along the way what you have learned.
I wish the best of luck to your young patients, sounds like they need it.Let this be a lesson to all you parents out there---pick an older doctor for your baby.
Thank you old doctor. And when a newer, more advanced procedure goes unused on one of your critical patients thanks in part to your plaque coated synapses, you'll say what? "Oh well, they sould have gotten a younger doctor"?I truth, all hospital settings offer a team approach to both your care and your baby's. That team includes professionals in all age groups. To imply otherwise is disingenouous of willisn at best. At worst it is a self serving lie to drag business into an old and failing OB-GYN practice. Ladies and gentlemen, place your bets. Carefully.
Thank you Dr. Weir, I do not know you personally but I appreciate all the effort you have put forth to become and practice as a physician. I could not imagine the joy and grief that comes with treating patients. It takes a very special person to decide to be a doctor and follow through with it. If writing helps you cope with all the emotions that you experience in being a doctor, then by all means write away. You are only human, perhaps more educated than most, but that doesn't increase your chances at super human powers. Everyone makes mistakes, however doctors where medicine and patients are concerned are expected to be perfect. I could not personally handle that type of pressure, so I appreciate all the doctors that can. Admitting you need help, is a character strength in my opinion. I would much rather a doctor say to me, I am unsure of this particular problem so let's consult a specialist or someone else in that area, than to be arrogant and choose a wrong/harmful solution.
Other than the rude comments, which aren't worth a response, there is one question raised by several people that might warrant a response. Why would a doctor write a book? Be a doctor or be a writer. (That reminds me of the cartoon that should Dickens with his publisher who said, "Mr Dickens you have to make up your mind. It can't be both the best of times and the worst of times.") People in many professions have found that writing about their experiences is first of all a way to understand them and move on and, sometimes, second of all a way to share something of value with others. Some of those books, like Jonathan Kozol's "Death at an Early Age" help change the world and we would have been poorer if Kozol had chosen to be only a teacher and not a writer as well. Dr. Weir has chosen to be both a pediatrician and a writer. She is working in one of the hospitals where she did her residency, which would seem to indicate that the doctors there see her as a valued colleague.
The sad truth is doctors in training have to spend many, many hours in the hospital to be exposed to and learn how to manage the huge amount of pathology out there before they are released into the world and have direct responsibility for keeping these patients alive. And when you get to that real world, especially if you are a specialist who has no choice but to take hospital night and weekend call, you can't say "I've worked my 18 hours, I get to go home now." You can work all day, all night, and all the next day too, because there is nobody else to take up the slack. I have to agree with a previous comment that if she spent more time studying, and less time expressing her angst on paper, she would be a better physician.
What I do not get is how come you are writing this stuff as a resident? Every medical student pass through this phase but not resident... perhaps, you started the book as a medical student and just completed it... but if these were facts you learned as a resident, what did you learn as a medical student?I really wish you luck and you could further in medical areas with less "traumatic" experience and office like schedule if it is not too late... I am sure you know that...Well, good luck pal
I have worked in a pediatric ER for 14 years. We watch all resident DR's like hawks waiting for thair prey to screw up. They typically don't get the chance. The people working around them... RN, techs, attending physicians and so on don't let them....rest easy it's part of our job that is deligated to us by our attending physicians....the one with the years behind there belts.
You have worked in pediatric ER for 14 years yet can't spell delegated?
hey mail...she can't spell thair either , but you R N ASS
I don't agree with your high handed critique, Its better to ask for help rather than have the white coat attitude covering up lack of practical experience or expertise on how to perform a procedure but going ahead and making a fatal error .
I say bravo for Dr Weir .
It never ceases to amaze me how niave doctors are. The lessons she learned apply to every single person and every single field of endeavor. Knowing when to ask for help is basic for any profession and she should have learned that in college, I know that I did. Her comments about wishing she had a nine to five job where she could "check off things to do" show that she has as little knowledge of how the "real works" as she does about working as a medical professional. I didn't realize that the "God syndrome" took effect until you had actually practiced medicine for a while.