Anthony Balderrama, CareerBuilder.com writer
Sometimes the interview goes terribly wrong. We're not talking about little mistakes, like spilling coffee on your shirt while you're in the waiting room. No, we're talking about the odd behavior that 99 percent of us wouldn't commit. Hiring managers have given us some examples of the worst missteps they've seen in interviews, and we've compiled the best.
Here are eight interview faux pas hiring managers have witnessed and that you should avoid if you want to get hired.
Hiring managers give their worst experiences
Anthony Balderrama, CareerBuilder.com writer
Most job seekers have a case of the jitters before going on a job interview. Anxiety's normal, but almost always those butterflies were in your tummy for nothing. The interview goes well, you don't make any serious mistakes and you exhale the moment you walk out of the room.
Sometimes, however, the interview goes terribly wrong. We're not talking about little mistakes, like spilling coffee on your shirt while you're in the waiting room. No, we're talking about the odd behavior that 99 percent of us wouldn't commit. Hiring managers have given us some examples of the worst missteps they've seen in interviews, and we've compiled the best.
Here are eight interview faux pas hiring managers have witnessed and that you should avoid if you want to get hired.
1. Bad manners
"A cell phone goes off -- which you should just apologize for and turn off promptly, but I've had candidates look at the number, which really ticks off an interviewer." - Connie Thanasoulis-Cerrachio, co-founder of SixFigureStart Career Coaching
"[The candidate asks,] 'When can I start?' Presumptuous and inappropriate." - Will Robinson, co-founder of VirtualJobCoach
"'Do you have something to eat? I am hungry.'" -- Robinson
"One candidate opened his briefcase and started snacking on crackers while interviewing." - Kent Johnson, partner with Davinci Search
2. Being weird
"Strangest thing ever -- a [University of Chicago] MBA student was doing very well during an interview, when a tape recorder spilled out of his briefcase. Very, very odd. He would have gotten a call back for a second round, but not after we saw that tape recorder. We still don't know what that was about! But we stayed away -- big time!" - Thanasoulis-Cerrachio
"I've heard some interesting ones, but the most bizarre was a prospective hire asking me if I was Jewish. Any religion would have been weird to inquire about in that situation ... maybe she was trying to form a bond?" - Justin Seibert, president of Direct Online Marketing
3. Giving a bad reason for wanting the job
"One answer to a question about why the applicant was looking to change jobs left me speechless. The candidate, a 20-something with about five years of work experience, said, 'Well, I've been twiddling my thumbs for six months.'" - Dana Byrne, manager of talent acquisition and professional development at RMJM
4. Letting nervous tics control you
"You shouldn't repeat a phrase over and over again. I had one candidate say 'There it is' at the end of about seven or eight responses. Very annoying and not impressive." - Thanasoulis-Cerrachio
"Nervous leg bouncing syndrome: I once had a candidate who rocked her leg so much that she was physically moving during the interview. We ended up hiring her, which was a huge mistake -- one of the worst hires ever." - Thanasoulis-Cerrachio
5. TMI
"I once had a candidate tell me her last boss was a drug addict and did cocaine regularly. Talk about inappropriate disclosure. I am sure there was a much more tactful way to talk about why she left the job." - Raquel Garcia, president of Silicon Valley Human Resources
"[One candidate said,] 'I'm a little worried about the background checks. Do you guys do background checks? Because my credit is terrible. I'm trying to get it fixed, but the credit agencies are a joke.'" - Brett Coin, vice president of business development for Resume Donkey
"In response to, 'We'd like to offer you this job. When can you start?' [the job seeker] replied, 'I don't know what to say. I've been through 16 interviews and no one has offered me a job.' This came from the mouth of my junior designer, who was referred to us by one of our clients. Tip: Be ready to accept a job. Like the Oscars, you might want to practice your speech. Not every employer is as forgiving as we are." - Nance Rosen, CEO of Pegasus Media World
"[I was asked,] 'What is your drug-testing policy?'" - Robinson
6. Poor presentation
"Another candidate wore a skimpy sequin dress and fedora hat to an interview claiming she just came from a photo shoot. We all guessed it was a bit more of an X-rated photo opp." - Johnson
"Candidate: Hi, I'm [so-and-so]." (leans in towards us).
Recruiter: (leans ever so slightly away to minimize the odor)." - Mary H. Roome-Godbolt, HR recruiter for Cox Communications Northern Virginia
"I once had a recent graduate who looked fantastic on paper, but showed up wearing flip flops. During the interview, he would lean back in his chair, flex his hands over his head and he even said several curse words in his responses. It was so bad I e-mailed him afterwards to point out his most obvious blunders!" - Nickie Doria, marketing director for Emmer Development Corp.
"One huge pet peeve is when an applicant comes in smelling like a smoke stack! It is a free country, and I realize that there are no laws against smoking cigarettes in the workplace, but that is no reason to come in reeking of smoke. People get nervous and might want to puff a quick cigarette before the interview, which is understandable, but when they arrive smelling like smoke, it is a real turn off." - Doria
7. Coming unprepared
"I happen to be hiring right now. One line that is a definite door-closer, that I have surprisingly heard several times: 'No, I haven't really had time to look at your Web site yet' or words to that effect. How interested should I be in a candidate with such a low level of interest in and knowledge about our company?" - Alexander Seinfeld, executive director at Jewish Spiritual Literacy, Inc
"In response to the interview question, 'So what do you want to do next?' The worst answer of all is to say, 'I'm totally open ... I'll do anything,' or 'I'm completely flexible ... I can go wherever the company's greatest needs are.' This answer leaves the hiring manager with the burden of figuring out where the candidate belongs in the organization, and no hiring manager has the time or energy to do that kind of work. And with the economy the way it is today, candidates are feeling the need to be flexible and keep their options open, and I am hearing from hiring managers [frustrated] over this kind of answer." - Jeanne Knight, career and job search coach
8. Forgetting to clean up digital dirt
"Of course, for those who are MySpace and Facebook junkies, make sure your pages are set to the private setting. We actually had a girl apply for a leasing position with one of our companies, and she did very well during the interview. Later, the manager wanted to learn more about her, and found that her MySpace name was ... well somewhat promiscuous at best! Needless to say, she never even got a call back! - Doria
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Search by Company | Search by IndustryAnthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama.




Oct 2nd 2009 @ 2:16PM Judy
In the past 6 months I've been on 3 interviews. One I had to turn down because it took me 2 1/2 to get home. One other they decided to hire somebody else and the last job I never heard from. I just noticed the other day that they're still interviewing. I know I represented myself well and I have the experience so I don't understand what makes these companies take such a long time to decide who they want to hire.
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Oct 3rd 2009 @ 12:36PM Kat
I think they just have their choice of candidates right now and want to make sure they get the best bang for their buck. It sucks. I've been looking for a job since December when I got laid off and I haven't had any luck. Consider yourself lucky that you've had an interview. In most cases, I don't even make it that far--and I have a college degree and 20 years of work experience. With all of these online applications, it feels like I'm just sending off my resume into cyberspace because I never even hear from the companies at all. In other cases, I've been rejected for jobs that I know I'm more than qualified to do. It's FRUSTRATING, but I guess we just have to keep our heads up. Good luck to you.
Oct 2nd 2009 @ 9:25PM mary
Call backs show that you really want the job. After about a week call and ask.
Oct 2nd 2009 @ 4:59PM William
I so much enjoyed reading the comments of those who had found success, at last! I am in near depair. I am an unemployed teacher, 61. I speak three languages with fluency, and once had a TOP SECREt security clearance with the USN. But no one wants to hire me! I feel I may be a fossil in the information age. I might soon lose everything. I'm glad to know that not everything on-line is a fraud.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 2:44PM Derek
This article SUCKS.... how about writing an article about how bad INTERVIEWERS are? I have been on many interviews were the interviewer CHECKED THE NUMBER on THIER phone while I was talking.
Or the DUMB questions that are asked...like what color would your box be if you were a box??? WTF???
Also...number 4 about Cleaning up Digital Dirt...who cares! To evaluate someone's abilities and skills based on what they have on a Facebook or MySpace page is plain stupid. So what if they have risque pics...YOU ARE HIRING THEM BASED ON THIER ABILITIES RIGHT??? Don't judge someone for what they have on a website...
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 2:46PM Angel
It’s amazing coming from New York where there are rules to the game of interviewing to Florida where I think the rules went out the window. I was interviewing for some positions I had available and sent out bait (Newspaper, Internet and word of mouth). No sooner said than done, “Baam”, a guy with shorts, sandals and a tee shirt that stated “Just Did It” asked for an application. The day went on with people like this, not caring about “First Impressions”. Then I noticed that the only people that cared about their appearance had minimal education and work history. I found that it’s easier to mold someone that cares about themselves and hard to deal with someone that don’t.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 5:58PM tom
Sorry, but I didn't get your point or understand what you were saying??? Clarify that for me if you have time. Thanks.
Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:15PM Jana
The majority of these pin points are nothing but manners and politeness... If there is a person looking for a job that is not minimum wage and can find more than 3 things that they do at an interview, I'm sorry but they have to learn their discipline first.
Note: I'm not talking about "it hapenned at ONE of many interviews" though.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 7:09PM sm
I have a question to anyone reading these that actually works as a recruiter or hiring manager.
What are we supposed to do when you are obnoxious? LOL
Seriously, if you talk loud, curse every 2 seconds, make derogatory comments about anyone, etc. - Do you still expect us to be angels or are you trying to get us to bond with you? Or maybe setting us up to act rudely ourselves and then hold it against us? Honestly when I was looking for work I went on more than 1 interview where the guy hiring started talking about this hot chick that was just in there, or calling people F-ups, and I still tried to maintain my own professionalism and never got called back by them (since they probably just hired the hot chick).
I remember 1 incident in particular where a caucasion recruiter kept calling all the other interviewees "Ghetto", and then proceeded to act as ghetto as anyone I've ever met with his language and manners.
I would really like to know - Do you consider the way you behave at all when thinking about how they behaved? Especially when it comes to complaints about language during interviews.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:29PM Juan Luis
I am agree with Angel and Judy. Yes, it is easy to make a baby than to rebuilt an adult. I have seen guys going for an interview in short, sandals and t-shirt. They disrespect theirselves as well as the rest of the personell who have to deal with them.
yes, Judy, most of the Hr officer are arrogant and they think they are god. Those are the ones that do not have the decency of contacting us after the interview. We wait for long time, but they have already filled the position. Nevertheless, they are a few they have professionalism and let the candidates the bad or good news.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 5:17PM DLS
Please learn how to spell then perhaps you would have a better chance at landing a J O B.
Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:36PM Joe
You have my interest. Would you care to share the information. I am disabled and would like to find something of interest and where someone had been doing the task that I have the ability to ask questions.
If possible. Thank You ! for your time reading this.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:40PM Suzette
The only advise I can give is something my mother told me ... "you never get a second chance to make a first impression"
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 4:10PM faith
How about rules for those doing the interviewing....I once went on an interview where the interviewer was on a lunch break....they were polite enough to offer to buy me something,but come on.....who wants to interview in between chewing,swallowing and wondering if something is stuck in your teeth....another interviewer went into a spiel about how bad the last manager was....do I really need to know that,I don't even know if I have the job yet!!!
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:48PM James
It goes both ways. I had an interviewer make me wait an hour after the appointed time while he entertained his kids and attended a christmas party which I watched from the lobby. Give me a break. There is a whole class of people who are neurotic, bipolar, ADHD, and other disorders who are precluded from employment because they are weird. This is litte more that veiled Mussolini style corporate fascism. When combined with employer driven health care coverage, you can argue one step further and call it corporate style eugenics... kinda like, well you know.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 3:56PM Melissa
What did you decide to do? I'm just wondering because I'm a single mom, and trying to get back among the workforce I have been looking for an office job for about a year.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 4:07PM zip
I'm retired and love it but the work I was in accepted volunteers to do some of the work and if a candidate showed promise in the work they were eventually hired.Don't make any money,but you also get the feeling whether the job suits you or not.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 4:10PM JC
This just shows how ignorant and egotistical hiring managers can be. They treat everyone like they are not worthy of a job unless they do everything just right. Give me a break. Interviews are the most asinine and arbitrary part of trying to land a job, and almost every interviewer holds themselves on some sort of high horse.
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Oct 2nd 2009 @ 5:43PM Kent
Think about it like this JC. Your doorbell rings, you answer the door and it's a guy selling lawn care. The first thing you notice is that his shirt is wrinkled and he has no belt on. He begins to speak and you struggle to understand what he's trying to say to you because of all of the um's and you know what I mean's after every other word. Then to top it all off he does not know his product and can't answer very many of your questions. At this point you're probably thinking, "...you're kidding me right". You know you're not buying anything from this guy because he didn't have enough respect for his or your time to have his stuff together to make a good visual and verbal presentation to you. Well an interview works in the same way JC, it's an opportunity for you to sell yourself as the best person for the job. Think about it. What else, other than the interview, do they have to go on? They don't know you. So my advice to everyone would be to change the way you think about interviewing and begin approaching them from a positive mindset. The positive attitude comes through during the interview and is noticed.
Oct 15th 2009 @ 11:35AM nadabrainiac
You seem to be missing the point. You aren't necessarily competing with the interviewer's expectations, as much as you are the other applicants. If you're one equal footing with the others in terms of knowledge or experience, these lapses of judgement are reasons to look harder at the other options. All other things being equal, if you and I showed up for an interview and you showered, but I didn't, who is more likely to be considered? This is simply about having an awareness of the impressions your behavior creates, and cultivating your style to maximize your opportunities. While most of the recommendations are general in nature, one specifically tailored to you might be to work on the attitude.