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Do You Have a Toxic Job?

By Anthony Balderrama , Posted Sep 21st 2009 @ 8:20AM

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Toxic chemicals are dangerous stuff -- hence the label toxic. That's why you can't just toss hazardous waste in a trash can or dump nuclear materials in a river. If you get uranium in your drinking water, you're bound to feel sick or find yourself with several extra limbs. (The latter is pure speculation, I admit.)

Bad workplaces aren't all that different. You might not grow a third arm from a toxic job, but you will slowly realize that your mental and even physical healths are suffering from undesirable work conditions.

Sure, you could quit, but how many of us are eager to leave our jobs in this economy? Until you find a better opportunity, you need to work with what you've got, and what you've got is a toxic workplace.


Caution: You're entering a hazardous work zone

If you enter a lab with hazardous materials, you're going to see placards with the skull and crossbones or radioactive symbols posted at the door. If you enter a toxic workplace, it's not that easy; you have to look for the clues. Job seekers can start when they arrive for the first interview, says Roberta Chinsky Matuson, president of Human Resource Solutions.

"When interviewing, be aware of your surroundings," she says. "Do you hear the sounds of laughter or does it feel like people are going through the motions until it's quitting time?"

Matuson also warns of an interviewer who couldn't be less interested in you or the interview.

"Clearly this is a sign that this person has checked out. Is this really someone you want to work for?"

Similarly, if you're given a tour of the space, look at how employees are behaving. Even if they're not laughing, they shouldn't look like work zombies who are afraid to look up from their tasks. Do they seem intimidated or even scared of the boss? If you get the job, you'll be one of those people. At this stage, you can walk away and look elsewhere. If you're employed and already one of those zombies, you have a little more work to do.


Unearthing the toxic elements

Not all toxic situations announce themselves. When your workplace is toxic, you have to recognize the signs.

First, assess your own state of mind. If anything associated with your job gives you a bad feeling, things might not be so great. A gut check is a good gauge, says consultant Joni Daniels of Daniels & Associates.

"If there is a knot in your stomach as you go to work, it could be a sign that the workplace is a toxic one for you," Daniels says. "If you or the office is walking on eggshells until 'someone' leaves the building [or] room, they are toxic. If work is taking up a lot of emotional energy and you can't mentally, intellectually or emotionally 'let it go' -- it's toxic."

Dulin Clark, who is a career coach for the MBA program at Penn State University's business school, agrees with Daniels. He suggests looking at your own emotions and behaviors and working outward to understand workplace toxicity.

"Primarily, [workers] needs to pay attention to how they feel when they are in the work environment," Clark says. "Feelings of chronic stress, building frustration, lethargy, low motivation and problems sleeping are just of the few the signs of being in a toxic workplace environment." Clark points out that some of the most recognizable causes are excessive criticism, poor treatment and lack of appreciation -- things that bug you and of which you're constantly aware.

Excessive gossip, extreme competition and duplicitous co-workers indirectly pollute your work culture and may therefore be more difficult to recognize. Competition can have an especially negative impact on you because it's often mistaken for healthy workplace motivation.

"Certainly doing your best and achieving excellence are highly admirable career strategies," Clarks says. "However, the best co-workers and leaders look out for the well-being of the team and unit."

If you recognize too many of these elements in your work situation, you probably have a toxic workplace. Now you have to do something about it.


Find your hazmat suit

Hazardous materials workers get to wear protective layers to keep the dangerous substances away at a safe distance. Your average employee has no such defense. You have to choose between three options: Leave, work through it or sit tight until something better comes along.

1. Leave

Removing yourself from the situation makes the most sense when you know things won't likely improve. If the move feels right and you can handle it financially, then maybe it is the best option. But many employees don't have the luxury of leaving a job in this economy.

2. Work through it

Finding a way to solve the problem is the ideal solution if you like your job or can't quit. Clark suggests addressing the issue with the person responsible for the toxicity.

"If the toxicity is the result of one person's actions or behaviors, then often the situation can be made more tolerable by an honest and direct conversation with the person," he says. "It is also often helpful to confide in a trusted colleague, both to relieve the tension of the toxic feelings and also to get advice and feedback about how to handle difficult situations."

3. Make do

Sometimes the best temporary solution is just to get by like many people do in imperfect work situations. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try to improve your circumstances. Far from it. Follow the above steps for handling troublesome bosses or co-workers. Vent to a friend. Do whatever you can to ease the knot in your stomach and sense of dread. While you're doing that, also look for a new job. This way you have the security of a paycheck and the comfort of knowing you won't be there forever.

Whatever you choose to do, make sure it's in your best interest. Now that you know you're in a toxic workplace, you have the tools to keep yourself out of harm's way.


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Anthony Balderrama

Anthony Balderrama

Anthony Balderrama writes for CareerBuilder.com and its job seeker and workplace blog, TheWorkBuzz.com. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama

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I have been in several TOXIC jobs in my career and everyone seems different every time. Most of the main reasons is employees jealousy, bulling, gossip,lies to get ahead or get the employee fired, or some pretend to be a friend when they really are not but just out to get ahead then they drop you like a fly.

Signature Loan Company......were the owner and executives insulted there employees by calling them idiots, stupid and other names I'd rather not say.
The ladies were told to be on the top of the list were told to get ahead you should dress like this...low cut shirts tight, pants skin tight,dresses to show more leg, all were to wear heels like they were call girls?
The males are treated like crap just like the women....idiots..what are you stupid.....talk down to every employee like they were dirt.
What made it worse the employees who were in good terms....they went along with the insults which made the environment hostile. Its really sad that companies do this to employees and seem to get away with it.
I did file an EEOC complaint and the EEOC said yeah these things are cruel but do you witnesses? My word against them.
Well I hope the employees remaining at these loan companies don't SNAP one day. What is so bad is people seem to turn the other way. It's like they have no morals or value. I treat others like I would like to be treated I was taught that as a child. Sometimes I think maybe I should just go along with the crap and maybe I could just get ahead of the game. But I just can't, I don't believe in unethical practices or behavior and I am very strong minded because I always believe that the truth will come out somehow. I worked for this company almost 2 years and I put up with so much BS, one day the media came in because the COO gave permission the dispose of confidential information in a dumpster, well they had fall people for that and blame the employees. Several investigators came in because it is a loan company. Well they played as they were shocked. But the truth is they were very aware of what they were doing because they have been doing it for years. I told the COO that this was against the Privacy Act, and he basically pushed me aside because I was a women I don't have that type of knowledge. I was asked to help out in another department to get things on the ball and the COO started to retaliate day after day. I was working long extensive hours to get the departments records in order because they are in such a mess, I worked on the floor with all my TEAM members because they have been treated like dirt and they needed to regain someones trust and be treated like humans again. Day after day the COO would just pick on small things, come in and yell at my staff and at me on the floor, mind you a man yelling at women like a coward. Hey what ever happen to having a sit down conversation? One day an employee came to me an said, Are you ok, I thought he might hit you because he was so mad? We didn't get along because he was very unethical the first interview with him I should have went with my feelings. The COO made comments regarding a certain employee, young lady, smart, pretty but she stood her ground and was close to the CEO well, I don't judge people according to anyone else. I don't like pushing people to think my way. I think for myself and no employee should ever be made to sit and gossip about other employees especially when you are the newest member to the group. I went to the CEO few months later and I asked to be moved and the reason. But it was just a cover up to what goes on and on at this company. I was asked one morning for a report and an auditor was still working on the audit well the COO sent me home and he would call me when the boss came back. Well, the COO wanted me out because I was not going to allow the bullying to continue...I was trying to develope a TEAM....SOMETHING THEY HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT. ALL THAT ENERGY USED TO INSULT AND USE EMPLOYEES TO BULLY EACH OTHER, LIE ABOUT EACH OTHER,AND THE LIST GOES ON AND ON.....CAN YOU IMAGINE HOW MUCH WORK THEY COULD HAVE ACCOMPLISHED IF THEY USED POSITIVE INFORCEMENT?
Another company....The company had no structure...construction......employees came in drunk on Mondays you could smell the beer....the horrible language....and the backstabbing of employees (ladies) was just unreal. I thought my god is this every where in the work place? Ladies like to go to the bar together with the males from the job and they would dance on the poles, bring pictures to the job site on Monday. This was not the worst...Human Resource Department...the lady running it got breast implants....she would compare herself with other women and temps it was a real shocker to me. I thought what the heck did I get into this time? Yeah the pay was right but at what cost? They hired a GM who is a bully and he likes taking both sides and then finds somehow to get the employees fired. The owner is can be fool

September 24 2009 at 1:14 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
GAIL

I did not bow down to the irrational ridiculous demands of a incompetent/owner boss. He fired ME after 3 wks. I was the fool for going back to work for him as a contractor after 6 yrs. Everyone who worked for him knew he was a nut-job. The only smiles came when he left town to infect his other locations. Trust your gut...

September 24 2009 at 12:20 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
TerryFay

I work for Wal-Mart. Need I say more?

September 24 2009 at 12:19 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Mike

I agree that it's unrealistic to just quit your job because it sucks - but, I also know from personal experience that when it gets bad enough you need to quit. I quit a $30/hr job because it just wasn't worth it. Quitting freed me up to spend several weeks with my kids at their various baseball/softball tournaments and, out of that, I found a much better job. I watched my dad suffer through a toxic job that nearly killed him. He thought that was what he was supposed to do, but I'd rather have had my dad than his income. Yeah, you have to eat and feed your family, but you can do that on almost nothing. Life is way too short to work at a job you hate.

September 24 2009 at 11:44 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
ANDERS F

I was in a situation like this for a very long time. I worked for 10 years for a Wall Street firm that was started by my uncle. My immediate supervisor ( my cousin's husband ) was abusive and downright mean. I was the number one at my given job, helping bring in a load of revenue while servicing our main account. I was promised the moon and stars( promotions, a partnership) and it never materialized. After about the 6th year I had had enough, I began to look for similar positions in othr firms,and because I had a stellar reputation as being one of the best at what I did, I found another position. This caused a whole upstir at the firm. I was asked to stay, tehy gave me a raise, and told me not to leave. I was told we were building something and led to believe my loyalty,hard work, and patience would be rewarded. Like a fool I stayed ( primarily because I felt guilty about upsetting my uncle). Fast forward to 4 years later, my supervisor ended up basically taking over the firm, forced my uncle to retire, and not even 3 months later I was terminated. My reward for 10 years of loyal service, making other people wealthy, and staying put even though my gut told me not to. At this point the entire business had changed due to technological advances, and all those positions I had turned down were no longer available. What di I walk out with? 2 months severance pay! Not to mention I couldn't even get it in one lump sum, they just paid me for 2 months as if I was still working(paid twice a month). My cousin's husband basically made my life a living hell for 10 years. I was in psycho therapy, I complained all the time , I dreaded going to work, hell I dreaded life all together, but it was family, and the money was very good. During my time there I developed a serious back problem, I was in agony standing all day, and asking for a day off to go get it looked at was a cardinal sin. I began taking painkillers just to get through the day, and quickly developed a problem with them. A year before I was terminated I went and sought help for my problem( the pills,and the initial reason I started taking them, my back). When I told my psycho therapist about my problem, he demanded for me to go to the doctor and get checked out the next day. It was a Wednesday and I had to call in , but I couldn't just say i wasn't feeling well because that would lead to weeks of being chastised and abused by this animal of a boss I worked for. I had to lie and say my boiler caught fire and the fire dept. was at my house. Anyway I got off the painkillers, and started physical therapy for my back.When I found out the following year I was being terminated, I was speaking to a friend and colleague who was a partner in the firm and was told by him that my boss justified firing me by labeling me a drug addict. There is nothing like working for family.

September 24 2009 at 10:56 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Robert

Trusting your gut feeling is great advice. I just quit a toxic job in the maintenance field. My boss was a know it all who had no experience working maintenance. After trying to resolve the issues between us and speaking with her boss, I got a raise in pay but the problems remained. I updated my resume and started looking for a new job. I was able to find a new job with better pay and benefits before the pay raise at my old job kicked in.
My advice is to get everything promised in writting and if you dont receive it then go to plan B.

September 24 2009 at 10:37 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Junk Mail

The face of the job market has changed drastically. It isn't what you know as much as it is who you know. I am currently working for a Medical Co. run by an owner who has a severe case of ADHD and is possibly bipolar. This is not me griping but actual fact. He has taken over his fathers business and is slowly running it into the ground. (Ruining long standing business relationships, cutting employees salaries multiple times, etc.) This is a toxic environment to say the least. I feel for all of you that are in a situation like this or worse. I go through the motions everyday, and it is not fun - but I have a mortgage and you have to make ends meet. I have many other valuable skills to offer other potential employers but the job market is simply not there - blame the economy, the fed, the gov't, china, wall st. - whatever the case may be... our economy is in the toilet right now. Hopefully all of you in this situation or worse will find a way out of it - don't give up because that will not help you improve things. Keep your head down and plug away. I know it is hard, I try to fight the good fight every day and it is long and it is unpleasant and hard. But I feel that I have no choice. Good Luck to all of you.

September 24 2009 at 10:30 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Carolyn

If a toxic, lying person runs things then toxic lying people thrive in that enviroment.

September 24 2009 at 10:04 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Bob

The author of the article obviously knows nothing about real hazardous materials workplaces. Often signs are NOT posted everywhere, but information is available. Federal regulations require that all facilities keep and maintain Material Safety Data sheets (MSDS) on all chemicals in their inventories in a place accessible to all employees.
This is part of the Right to Know provisions.

Employees can look at the MSDS sheets and determine for themselves if there is a significant risk and if the safety protocols and equipment provided are adequate. Note should be made of safety equipment that is there but not working or turned off. That may take them a while because some places have hundreds of MSDS sheets on file. If there are serious violations it's time to call OSHA or find another job. Dead people can't spend money.(In some cases dying would be easier than living with the consequences of exposure.)

Please note that hazardous materials are not the only way to produce a hazardous environment. For example the construction industry has lots of opportunities for injury.

Now, I am very familiar with the type of "toxic" workplace most refered to and it is a very discouraging situation. Poor administration exists from the level of college presidents to shops in the mall. All I can say is to keep trying to get so good at your job that you're not afraid to lose your job.(Being skilled another line of work
doesn't hurt either.) I've seen people get their supervisor fired. The company could get another supervisor but finding another good mechanic/welder would have been hard.

A little luck never hurt either.

September 24 2009 at 10:03 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Tina

I just left a very toxic job after many years of abuse. It has taken a toll on my health so bad that I am on medication, under doctor's care and at this time unable to work. My advise, if you start to get sick on Sunday because you have to go to that awful enviorment on Monday get out now. But do not let it go. Report all abuse to the Labor Board, your councelman and any Department that you can.It will be had but you can do it. SEND A MESSAGE TO ALL. VERBAL ABUSE IS THE SAME THING IF NOT WORSE THAN TAKING A BEATING. BELIEVE ME I KNOW/ DON'T LET IT GO UNHEARD. Do not be the fall guy for anyone. Good luck to all.

September 24 2009 at 9:55 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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