Anthony Balderrama, CareerBuilder.com writer
Supposedly it takes 21 days to form a habit.
I'm convinced, however, workplace habits take a little longer to break. The little annoyances -- like the guy who picks his teeth with your letter opener -- aren't what I'm talking about. I'm thinking of the bigger offenses that require a complete change of your mindset. They're annoying to everyone else and they're actually damaging your career.
Here are eight work habits you need to break now.
Anthony Balderrama, CareerBuilder.com writer
Supposedly it takes 21 days to form a habit.
I'm not sure I believe that. Try going on a diet and I guarantee that a freshly baked pizza will break your willpower whether you're on the second or the forty-fifth day. Or maybe I'm just weak and 21 days is all most people need.
I'm convinced, however, workplace habits take a little longer to break. The little annoyances -- like the guy who picks his teeth with your letter opener -- aren't what I'm talking about. I'm thinking of the bigger offenses that require a complete change of your mindset. They're annoying to everyone else and they're actually damaging your career.
Here are eight work habits you need to break now.
1. The bad habit: Confusing casual with disrespectful
Why it's bad: Feelings get hurt and reputations get damaged
How to fix it: Ask yourself if what you say or do to your boss undermines his or her authority. Bosses aren't infallible, all-knowing creatures who can't be questioned. If you and your supervisor have a casual relationship filled with humor, you already know this. Nevertheless, he or she is your boss, and at the end of the day that's who makes the final decisions. When you begin to think of yourself as your boss's workplace equal, you cross a line that could damage your relationship.
Also, your boss probably has a boss, too. This means that calling him or her a nickname or not being supportive of ideas in front of other people suggests you're the one running the show. It's important to remember that showing respect doesn't mean you need to be a "yes" man or woman who goes along with everything; it just means you should know what's appropriate for private conversations and what's appropriate for group settings.
2. The bad habit: Always doing the bare minimum
Why it's bad: Anyone can just skate by, so you'll be easy to replace
How to fix it: Not overextending yourself is admirable because not only do you preserve the quality of your work, but you also keep your sanity intact. Very few employers, however, want C+/B- workers. If you have a project due in one week and you're not particularly busy, moving at a snail's pace just because you can doesn't give a great impression.
Those clichés of going the extra mile and giving 110 percent are sometimes worthwhile. You're not likely to get promoted, get a raise or earn a glowing recommendation if your most notable accomplishment is just being there. Come up with new ideas, improve existing procedures and improve the quality of your work -- anything to assure that you're not just showing up for the paycheck.
3. The bad habit: Not budging from your job title
Why it's bad: Obedience is great, but flexibility is better
How to fix it: Job descriptions are rarely all-inclusive, so look at job postings with the understanding that your duties will shift over time. Ask anyone who's fortunate enough to be working today -- this recession has redefined job titles in every industry. Yes, you were hired to do a specific job, but over time you could be asked to take on additional tasks or to transition into an entirely new role. Of course you don't have to, but realize that the job you were hired for might not be needed anymore and asking you to adapt could be the company's way of keeping you around.
4. The bad habit: Forgetting what your job is
Why it's bad: If you're not doing your job, then why are they paying you?
How to fix it: This is the flip side to the above bad habit, and I know it's a fine line to walk. Being flexible to the company's needs is admirable, and others will notice. If you spend more time doing things that distract you from getting relevant work done, you're just not doing your job. For example, if your company's e-mail policy is lax and you're allowed to receive personal messages, don't abuse it and spend more time planning tonight's party than doing your job. Hours on Facebook also don't count as work for most employees.
5. The bad habit: Ignoring the chain of command
Why it's bad: You make people look bad and come off as a brat
How to fix it: Go through the proper channels to address concerns. Let's be clear -- if you're dealing with a serious, legal issue and your boss can't be trusted, then by all means get help however possible. But if you're griping about some personality conflicts or just want things done your way, address them with your boss before escalating your issues. If it's an HR issue, speak with your rep, not with the head of HR. If you go to higher ups about an issue, they'll immediately wonder why your boss couldn't handle it (thus making him or her look bad) and why you had to make such an ordeal about it.
6. The bad habit: Operating on your own clock
Why it's bad: Not everyone can work around your schedule
How to fix it: Be punctual and dependable. Although deadlines and meeting times can be bothersome, you're probably not the only person they affect. Therefore, your tardiness inconveniences other people. It also gives you the appearance of an unreliable person, and no one really wants to work with that kind of colleague.
7. The bad habit: Badmouthing your colleagues
Why it's bad: You never know who's listening.
How to fix it: You already know gossip is a no-no, but spreading negative opinions about a co-worker is just as bad as spreading hearsay. First, negativity gets old. Second, your opinion can get back to the people about whom you're talking. It might even get back to the boss, who may disagree with you or at least disagree with your attitude and hold it against you. If you need to vent, do it away from work.
8. The bad habit: Flaunting your connections
Why it's bad: It's annoying and they're not guaranteed to last forever
How to fix it: Don't make a big deal about your enviable inroads. Bragging is tacky, and that's what you're doing when you keep namedropping the CEO's name. Plus, the person you're talking about might not want the relationship to be widely discussed since it could make others think favoritism is at play. More importantly, the CEO could move on to a new job and suddenly that sway you thought you had with people is gone.
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Search by Company | Search by IndustryAnthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues. Follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/abalderrama.




Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:09PM steven
typical activity for a 19 year old, not a well to do family man.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:42PM corporate puppet
oh the typical guide to obey and play the game ... it is hard enough to achieve the high targeted production traps let alone the butt kissing with high drama backstabbing gossip of the cutesy woman who think they know it all.
Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:43PM Jenna
It's "typical?"
Then you're the typical adult, thinking every person is the same. How ignorant you really are.. How ignorant..
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:04PM Antoinette
I actually laughed when I read your responce,.. Why?
Your acting the typical kid being on the defense.
Its attitudes like this that created this posting to be here for you to "show off" as you just did, making the point even more clear.
LMAO!
Let me guess your in the age range of 17-13,.. why do I know? Ive 3 of you!
You people of your age & generation are the "gimmies" of the world.
Give me this! Give me that!
Your clueless as to what true & real value is. Much less many to most things.
Your ignorance in use of defense towards your elders is in the long run & will be your ultimate demise. Your only disrespecting yourself & those whom you feel you must defend yourself to.
Good luck with that.
Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:46PM Linda Freedman
Great stuff, and I noticed you shied away from anything that might smack of sexual harassment, which tends to be a top-down thing.
It's still safe to advise, Don't get in the habit of even flirting with people at work.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:52PM Eddie Haskell
Was this article written in the 1950's? Corporate America has come a long way since those close minded authoritative corporate ways of the 50's.
None of the habits written above have anything to do with today's working world. Company policies are more lax in lieu of creating a more friendly teamwork atmosphere.
This is a really pointless and out-of-touch article.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 2:54PM Sarah Brand
Great CD article
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:25PM Debbie
In Jenna's defense, I worked at a college where some of the most "gimme" people were the so called adults. Also, by that very same affect, some of the younger in age people were more mature than the so called adults
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:04PM NancyY
I worked for a gov't contractor and saw co-workers exhibiting every one of the bad behaviors listed. How did they get by? They brought doughnuts and kolaches, and/or wore inappropriate clothing.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:46PM skip
I've seen everyone of these things voloated. I have done some myself just befor I left because of money factors. all in all it a good article for people to read an keep in mind I think. I've seen all to many times "I have mine you get your's" I will not tell you anything I know , go beat it out of the rock, mentality. it is mean . will it goes on an on . skip
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:26PM kejj
Your spelling is in need of HELP.
Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:34PM Ashley
I see this as a list of things that a great many people are guilty of in the work place. From the snotty 17 yo to the "all knowing" 45 yo. I don't see the point of back and forth via comments, when I'm sure that both of you have been guilty of at least one of these things at some point, unless you don't work I guess.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:45PM Chantal
Actually anyone who thinks they are perfect and never need to watch there behavior is in trouble. Its just more admissible for a 17 year old kid to misbehave. An adult though should hold themselves to a higher understanding, and learn to be humble enough to know when change is needed in oneself, whats wrong with seeking to be the healthiest person (emotionally, mentally, spiritually, or physically) you can be?
This article does a great job of telling us what we might be doing wrong unknowingly and can change to help ourselves in the long run.
Sometimes the truth sucks and the truth isn't always a easy pill to swallow but that's what being a real adult is all about.
Also as a parent if you want your children to display different behavior make sure you are showing them that behavior yourself, otherwise they might just be doing what they are seeing. Or doing what they were taught.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:40PM Carolyn Mansell
Antoinette: I actually shook my head when I read your reply to Jenna, not only because your grammar and spelling is atrocious, but also your witless banter is basically a hypocritical finger pointing at all the "young people out there." You're (that's a contraction of the two words "you are", in case you're wondering) acting like the typical person who (wrongly) believes that he/she is entitled to have an incredibly condescending attitude because you've "been around longer". Yes, life experience dictates that the above work habits are to be avoided and it can take a while for employees and employers alike to smooth everything out after a slew of negativity, but your offensive demeanor will not get you anywhere, unless you truly want to be a crabby, old recluse... oh wait--you already are. Cheers to you.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 3:50PM Benny
I like Homer Simpson's style of working, and you too can achieve this in stages: 1.) Acceptance: Your stuck at this job, so don't get your hopes up. 2.) Adaption: Since your stuck at your job, you might as well find the little nuances that you can enjoy/get away with... Like sleeping at your desk. 3.) Regression: It always helps to let your mind regress to the way it was when you were in elementary school. Your boss is the teacher, your coworkers and you are the students. Except, passing notes is done by email. And finally, Thankfulness: That you can do whatever you want and STILL GET PAID FOR IT!!!
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:13PM Jeff
Very good, insightful information for any new employee entering the workforce. Us old farts that are still working learned these lessons long ago.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:02PM Kronos
People today feel that just because they show-up for work their obligation to the employer is complete. Too ask for anything more, like work, is considered too much to ask. "I showed up, what more do you want? How about doing the job you were hired to do? What a god damned idiot! You have to reward them just for them to do any thing but show up. And if that were not bad enough, you det most of the black people pull the race-card. " You wouldn't make me work if I was white" And the poor crew-leader is stuck by either cowdown to his or her demands or have a racial incident made permanent on the crewleaders work file, that will affect his or her work life by being passed up for promotion because htm or her are racists. Do not get me started about some women who pull the same childish shit. Everyone loves the money, but are unwilling to lift a finger to actually earn it. America is simply a scab of a nation going insane!
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:08PM NancyY
Chantal - If everyone in a professional setting is supposed to allow 17-year-olds to misbehave (which I would not have done at that age), why would anyone want to hire 17-year-olds at all? Really, think about it. If anyone is too immature to work, they don't need a job - they need to stay at home for awhile and grow up.
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:10PM cavaliermom6
I'm certain all of us have been guilty with at least one of the listed. What I am against, though, is out and out nastiness. There is no reason or place for it in the work place. I have seen and heard managers verbally take down co-workers in front of other co-workers and customers. Rule #1: If a manager must remind or reprimand an employee, do it in private. Putting down and yelling at an employee in front of other people not only hurts the employee but makes themself look bad and makes the company look bad. Learn the correct office etiquette managers!
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Sep 22nd 2009 @ 4:11PM Addy
I myself am I teenager working after school. In these times, getting a job as an adult with a degree is hard enough, so I'm not going to ruin my opportunity. It astounds me hear about all the adults working out there who do the things listed above.
But, on the flip side, other adults diligently do their work while he kids don't take a job opportunity seriously. It really just depends on the person working
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