Anthony Balderrama, CareerBuilder.com writer
When two people fall in love, they only see sunshine and rainbows when they look into each other's eyes. If you asked, "What's the worst trait of your boyfriend or girlfriend?" they would answer, "Absolutely, positively nothing!"
Ask that same question a few years later when they're living together and have seen each other at their respective worst. You'll get a pretty good list:
"She cuts her toenails on the coffee table."
"He speaks in a cutesy voice on behalf of the dog."
"She kicks me in her sleep."
Hopefully none of these nuisances find their way into your work life, but other ones probably do. Everyone has some weaknesses in their work behavior that they need to work on, and they often extend beyond annoyances (such as eating a smelly lunch at your desk) and become problems for your career.
Here are 10 work habits that you should try to break:
1. Procrastination
A lot of people work best under pressure, or at least they say so. With everyone having a different personality, you can't say a strict schedule works best for all employees. Putting tasks off until the last minute, however, invites plenty of problems, even if you think the final result will be glorious.
When you leave yourself no wiggle room to complete a task, you run the risk of encountering an unexpected obstacle that makes you miss the deadline. Even if the situation's out of your hands, everyone will be left wondering why you didn't plan better and account for last-minute emergencies.
2. Being a sloppy e-mailer
E-mails are second nature to most people these days, and in informal communications they've become a digital Post-It note. We type out a message and send them without proofreading or double-checking the recipients. That's a recipe for disaster.
If you haven't learned your lesson by now, the day will soon come when you accidentally "Reply All" to an e-mail and a slew of unintended readers receive a silly note you only intended your co-worker to read.
3. Confusing informal with disrespectful
In many workplaces the boss might be the decision maker, but he or she isn't the stern, humorless caricature you saw on TV. Using your supervisor's first name and going for some drinks after work are common in many industries. Still, you are the employee and the boss is the boss -- the one who can fire you and tell you what to do. Don't cross the line by talking to him or her as if you're talking to one of your direct reports or even your best friend. You need to show some respect for their authority.
4. Taking advantage of leeway
Some companies are strict about the time you clock in and out. Others have guidelines but no hard rules. So you can arrive at 8:35 a.m. and no one cares. If over time you're arriving at 9:10 a.m. and leaving at 4 p.m. (with plenty of breaks in between), your reputation will suffer.
This also goes for dress codes. Business casual is up to interpretation, but ripped jeans and concert tees probably don't fall under your company's accepted definition.
5. Refusing to mingle
Plenty of wisdom lies in the advice not to mix personal and professional lives. However, refusing to take part in any social activity -- such as the office potluck or a happy hour -- will not help your career. You don't need to be the resident party animal, but being personable with your colleagues helps build camaraderie. You get to know other people better and they get to know you as more than the person they pass in the halls.
6. Always running late
This isn't the same as abusing leeway; this is a matter of trust. If you're late to work, to meetings and with projects, your boss and colleagues will associate that trait with you. When it's time for a promotion or to deal with an important client, everyone will think twice before giving you the opportunity. Who wants to trust the person who can't manage his or her time?
7. Being rigid
One of the unfair aspects of the working world is that sometimes it seems you can't win. If you're hired to do a job, most bosses don't want you passing the day by reading your favorite book. The reason: You were hired to do a job, so do it. But if the boss comes to you with a new project that's outside the parameters of your usual duties, it's still yours to do. "You don't pay me to do that" isn't something you want to tell your supervisor.
8. Acting as the resident contrarian
We all love your spirited personality, but try not to be the person in the meeting who always has a better idea and can tell you why everyone else's idea is dumb. Voices of opposition are often missing in many workplaces because too many eager employees want to be "yes" men and women. But too much negativity grates on nerves and makes people dread hearing your voice. Continue to be a critical thinker, but make sure you're doing what's best for the company and not just trying to be the loudest voice in the room.
9. Badmouthing the company
With blogs, Facebook, Twitter and a host of other sites, you have plenty of opportunity to vent your frustration with life. If you're going to complain about how dumb your boss is and how much you hate your job, keep those rants private. The Internet is public domain and comments have a way of finding their way back to all the wrong people. If you wouldn't stand outside your boss's office and tell a co-worker how ready you are to quit, don't express the same thoughts in an open forum.
10. Politicking
Office politics are often unavoidable, and sometimes having a grasp on what's going on can benefit you, but you shouldn't spend more time masterminding office warfare than you do working. Getting caught in the crosshairs of a workplace controversy can be out of your control, but if you're the one instigating the drama, you're earning a bad reputation. You're the person who starts trouble and whom no one trusts. That's the kind of notoriety that follows you from one workplace to another.
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Search by Company | Search by IndustryAnthony Balderrama is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com and its job blog, The Work Buzz. He researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues.




May 23rd 2009 @ 4:18PM Nina
These apply to volunteer as well as salaried positions !!
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Nov 20th 2009 @ 4:50PM scorpio
You are absolutely right. I am affiliated with a youth sports program and as one person to start it, I found that people will do all of these. I guess thier viewpoint is I,m not getting fired so who cares.? You are volunteering for cry'n outloud.
These same principles can be used at home in our personal lives.
May 23rd 2009 @ 4:18PM Charlene
Every aspect of this article is right on the money. No matter how big or small the company is, each person with in that company should take reasponsibility for his or her own assignments and work toward the common goal of the companies success. If we all took on our own job/postion with ownership to the company no one would really have time to cause internal striff. After all, when the promotions are being handed around the higher up's have already made the decision based on perfomance numbers generated by data collection, not how many associates love or hate the individual. What is lost in the world of "work" is the work itself and turned into a world of "soap opera" antics. Focus on the job at hand and you will have a job to go back to tomorrow!
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 4:03PM karen
I don't think you read the part about proof-reading your e-mails. :P
Jun 25th 2009 @ 8:10AM David
Charlene, your comments are well stated. The work place should be an enviroment that accumulates the skills, talents and energy of the employees to promote the advancement of the company. The ten worst habits that were documented in this article stem from behavior patterns that unfortunately are dumped into the office by the employee. Adversely, we now have an opportunity to take a look at ourselves and decide not to fall into the trap.
Jun 25th 2009 @ 10:49AM Mary Jane
the worst is when you go to the hospital and 2 employees are talking personal business and you have to wait for them to finish talking before you can get waited on. That is so rude. Then they give you the attitude why are you interrupting our conversation like they are you doing a favor. If it were not for me being there they would not have a job.
Aug 25th 2009 @ 12:22AM Deb
One additional no-no at work...refrain from soliciting monetary support for favorite charities or one's children's favorite charity at work. Don't assume you know the financial status of your co-workers.
May 25th 2009 @ 7:26PM Michele
Yes, everyone SHOULD proofread their email before they blog it to the world or at least do a spell check because the few comments that I have read, thus far, SUCK! Didn't anyone read what the writer wrote or are they just typing subjectively with emotion and not objectively per the title of the article? When one does not spell check an email it makes the respondent, like me, think that the person sending the email is either lazy or just plain ignorant. It would make me think that I could not trust that person to handle a particular assignment, for fear of screwing it up and making the Company look ignorant; thus, who would want to trust doing business with my Company?
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Nov 20th 2009 @ 5:49PM Dana
Amen to that one ! I have worked with people who NEVER spell check and their emails and other correspondence are so blatantly ignorant ! It is also important to check for correct word usage:
i.e.: then when you mean than
your instead of you're
I worked with a woman that stated, “If spell check said it was okay then it must be right”. This same person ran a business on the side and she spelled DINING as DINNING ! (SHE RAN A RESTAURANT and typed her menus while on THIS JOB!!)
Nov 20th 2009 @ 6:07PM Lori8868
Um, Mr./Ms. Contrary: you lack subject/verb agreement in your "proofread" email. Let s/he, who is without sin, cast the first stone. In this case, you shouldn't be tossing pebbles at anyone.
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 2:38PM mike
How profound !!
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 2:53PM Ed
Don't mess with the hand that feeds you.
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 2:48PM Mark
Everything sounds solid except number 5. In today's work place, there are too many inappropriate things occurring in these after hour gatherings. It's better not to be there so you don't embarrass yourself, don't see someone else doing something stupid or end up being a witness to something and having to make a statement. If you are working with professionals, no one should care whether you eat a burger or drink a beer with them or not.
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 6:30PM dan
Mark do you work with wierdos? If you can't partake after hours how can you partake during hours??
Jun 5th 2009 @ 2:54PM Tony
It also helps if you love your job - like me!
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Jul 10th 2009 @ 2:33PM Zuly
It is all true!! Even if you are not working this applies to you. It is a matter of who you are, your manners and your education. Wich will clearly reflect the person that you are and who will associate with you and your company.
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 4:24PM paula
ok you have my attention
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Jun 5th 2009 @ 4:28PM ggdw99
I'm getting tired of all these articles that constantly criticize the "lower rung" employees (AKA anyone below management and human resources). There are a lot of us out there that do follow these rules daily and yet still get treated badly by management. Where are the articles on the ten worst habits of bosses, or ten ways to better improve human resources? It's not always the middleman's fault that a work environment sucks beyond belief.
I agree with showing common courtesy and simple respect to the bosses because of their authority. But they're not Kings and Queens either. It's about time that we stopped treating them like that and realize that they're the same as everyone else, except they have a position that pays them better.
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Jun 25th 2009 @ 9:14AM Myrna
I totally agree with 99dw99. I have been on my job for 14 years and they treat me like the black sheep of the office. They are very deceitful, they have continuously lied to me and I am going through employee abuse and I am tired of it. I have went above and beyond working for that company and they go out of their way to make me miserable and to make me suffer. They are trying to make me quit, but I like my job. They keep me stressed, depressed and I have no more tears. They have cut my hours down to 8 hours a week and only me. I have 2 more years before I can retire and If I can just hang on in there and I'm trying really hard to do that. I am hoping things get better for me through prayer. Thanks for reading this, have any of you got any ideas.